Art of Seduction

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Feminine Arts & Techniques

Adapted from “Sexual Bewitchery” by Barrie Dolnick, Julia Condon & Donna Limoges
Within every woman is a Goddess. By tuning in to your innate sense of your feminine skills, you can unleash hidden powers that can transform you into an innocent wildflower or a daring vamp. This intuitive guide will help you to resurrect those elusive and erotic talents.

All women possess the power to be alluring and mysterious – but few know how to use it wisely. Whether you’re seducing the man of your dreams or trying to meet him, it is within you to create that powerful draw of attraction to ignite passion, connection and fulfillment. This is about celebrating your womanhood and using your inborn wisdom to attract love and find fulfillment.

Feminine Arts & Techniques
The following information list popular scents, colors, hues, fabrics, and foods that speak the language of love, sex and sometimes, “get lost”. You can use these definitions to decipher what your outfits have been saying to people all these years.

Allure the Senses with Scent
To obtain these scents, you can use scented lotions, oils, candles, and any other natural fragrance to the carry the message.

To Entice

• Vanilla General fragrance for welcoming and warmth
• Lavender Opens the space for connection and love
• Orange Blossom Stimulates root center to bring our your sensuality

To Seduce

• Cinnamon “Heat” generator. Raises your energy and the energy of those around you
• Jasmine Heightens allure for that come-hither appeal
• Musk Evokes sexual stimulation
• Rose Heart connection when you are already with someone. It has a subtle resonance

Lovemaking

• Honeysuckle For making love. Brings heart, throat, and brow into focus, helping to expand the lovemaking experience beyond the physical
• Ylang Ylang Connects allure, love and desire

Color Conjuring: Your Message Guide

• Cold Colors Aloof, remote, cool, not demure, “ice queen”
• Warm Colors Friendly, open, inviting, “come hither”
• Pastels Young, simple, fresh icy, girlish
• Earth Tones Inviting, not flirty, fertile, illuminated, warm
• Neutrals Blank, remote, “business”
• Jewel Tones Clear, direct, rich, touchable, reverent

The Power of Fabrics

• Silk This is the fabric of attraction. It can lend mystery to your look, because it veils you while being alluring.
• Damasks, Satins and Velvets These are passion raisers. Their richness invites touch and exudes warmth and heat. The sheen of satin and the glow of velvet signal open sensuality.
• Leather Power

Delightful Delectables

• Lust Inducing Chocolate, cinnamon, mint, nuts, vanilla, olives
• Love Inducing Apple, apricot, cherry, chili pepper, figs, maple, mango, peppermint, plums, strawberry

The perfect Seduction tools: Silkey Sheets Spray, Kama Sutra Honey Dust, Shunga Soft Moves Massage Cream, Deluxe Mitt & Ladyfinger

Seduction: The 64 Arts of the Kama Sutra

Seduction is an art that is usually associated with attracting the opposite sex. Though it is not always sexual, it does help you to get that dose of attention you seek from the members of the opposite sex. Moreover, you can say that it is not handed over at birth, rather is made up with your own efforts. All you need is the right attitude, perfect body language, confidence and a charming persona to achieve that seductress look. Catching eyeballs is not difficult, but it is important to understand that the vibes you send across should not send wrong signals.

The Orient did not consider sex apart from, or opposed to, spirituality or religion. The sex act was given a place of honor and was intimately connected with the other arts.

The Sixty-Four Arts should be conceived as the Paths of Creative Energy. They are the emanations of the goddess Saraswati, the "anima" of Jungian psychology. They can be likened to the flames of an inner sun, blazing from the solar plexus. Burning up all negativity, these flames of the creative attitude purify the psyche and bring about an inner transformation. As practical skills of the outer world, they delight others and fulfill the talented practitioner.

The Kama Sutra, the classical Indian treatise on the Art of Love, enumerates the Sixty-four Arts. The text advises that these should be studied along with the Kama Sutra, preferably under the guidance of a teacher. These arts and sciences (for no distinction between them was then made) include singing, music, dancing, writing, drawing, painting, sewing, reading, recitation, poetry, sculpture, gymnastics, games, flower arranging, cooking, decoration, perfumery, gardening, mimicry, mental exercises, languages, etiquette, carpentry, magic, chemistry, mineralogy, gambling, architecture, logic, charm-making, religious rites, household management, disguise, physical sports, and martial arts plus many specialized activities related to the culture and time. The accomplishments expected of young women in Victorian times echoed this idea. To update this, the arts related to more recent technical innovations, such as photography, could be added.

The Indian treatises on love suggest that both men and women should be well versed in as many of the Sixty-four Arts as possible. Two arguments as to why these arts should be studied are presented in the texts. First, a person who is accomplished in them is automatically given an honorable place in society. Second, through the application of these arts one can more easily win over the object of desire, be it husband, wife or lover, and provide more fulfillment. Easily be self supporting by the application of these skills.

7 Keys to Bedroom Bliss

Lover's Guide

Adapted from an article originally written by Suzie Heumann

The ancient societies of China, Japan, India and the Middle East were very well versed in sexuality. They considered it a science and delved deeply into the meaning and practices surrounding many aspects of sensuality, sexuality and love. As long ago as 2000 BC the Love Arts became firmly established as an integral component of a healthy lifestyle.

Many books have been written on this suject but there is a set of 'Keys' that will help you right now to transforming your sexual experience. These keys can be practiced and experimented with for your own personal pleasure. Each of us is different, and yet each of us is the same in many ways, so your unique sexploration with these keys will depend on you and the experience you want.

Key #1: Breath of Life
You may not think breathing is very sexy but you couldn't be further from the truth. The benefits are extraordinary and have direct health benefits, too. Learning to breathe deeply into your belly increases relaxation, decreases tension and stress, and puts more oxygen into your blood stream. Oxygen is what delivers the 'O' in Orgasm.

Key #2: Be “Present”, Be in “The NOW”
Before you begin making love, sit on the bed, facing each other, and eye gaze and breathe deeply together. Eye gazing is easy - simply soften your eyes and look into your partner's eyes without "doing anything." The eyes are the windows to the soul. The next time you are making love look deeply into your lover's eyes. Experience the whole event from that perspective, if possible.

Key #3: Sexercise Your Love Muscles
Learn the right way to do Kegel or PC muscle sexercises and DO them. Your orgasms will be stronger and longer and more satisfying if you have strong PC muscles. You will want sex more often - you'll be turned-on more. You'll like this if you want to up the ante on your sex drive.

Key #4: Sensual Touch
Pay close attention to how you are touching. Be very deliberate in the touch quality you offer. Put your attention on what you are doing. Notice if your own fingers feel exquisite to you. If they do then your lover will be feeling it too!

Key #5: Create a sensual spirit in the bedroom
A deep sense of spirit and sensuality is easy to create, especially in your bedroom. Design a space that is sensual, cozy, and restful. Throughout most high cultures of the past, the art of decoration and placement was an important aspect of how life was conducted. Combining the sensual with the spiritual can birth a fresh essence in your relationship.

Key #6: See your partner as a Goddess or a God
Ancient Eastern societies believed that each individual was the earthly manifestation of the God and Goddess. This belief held each individual responsible for their moral behavior to match that of the Gods. The Sanskrit word Namaste (na-ma-stay) exemplifies this concept. It is used as a greeting and means "the divine in me sees the divine in you." When we can overlook the little nuisances that bother us about our partners, and hold them in a divine light, our relationships are much more fun and meaningful.

Key #7: Communicate
Use your brain, your heart, and your voice during sex. Communicate!
Here's a simple 3-step lesson to use when you aren't getting what you want:

1. Make a small compliment about something that is right. "Honey, I like the light touch you're using on my..."
2. Make a single request: "Could you try doing the same thing but faster?"
3. Make a comment: "Wow, I thought that would be great but it doesn't work." Or "Yes, that's it. Oh my!"

Get the picture? It's called a sandwich: Say something that is working, ask for a single change, make an acknowledgement of the change, whether it worked or not. With this kind of a feedback cycle you'll both be more empowered to learn so much more about each other.

A Sensual Evening ala The Kama Sutra:
Tantric philosophy says that the search for knowledge is in everything you do, see, and experience. Being aware of your senses - touch, smell, taste, sight, and hearing - and using them consciously will create a more mindful life.

Bedroom Bliss - Love Ritual

Create an evening with your lover that brings you back to your senses. Prepare everything you'll need ahead so that the experience flows.

• Bathe each other and towel each other dry.
  
• Decide who will go first, then blindfold the Receiver and lie them down on your bed.
  
• Treat them to different modalities of touch: a feather, a rose, a piece of fur, a piece of velvet, and see if they can identify what it is you are using. Blow on them softly. Trail a silk scarf or your hair over the length of their body.


• Pass bits of fruit under their nose for them to enjoy smelling. Try a flower from your garden. Dab a bit of perfume or a scented oil on your fingertips and wave it in the air. Use things that are subtle to the senses.


• Gather a small bell, a chime, your charm bracelet, some dry leaves on a branch, a crystal glass to ring, a Tibetan bowl, or anything else you can think of that would produce exquisite sounds for your partner to experience.


• Even bending close to their ear and breathing softly will work. Have them taste the different fruits you earlier passed by their nose now. A bit of whipped cream, chocolate, or liqueur would do nicely, too.
  
• Remember to remind your partner to breathe deeply and take it all in.

The point of this evening is to treat your partner to a complete sensory experience. When you block one of the senses like sight the other senses become heightened. You can then experience them more deeply and become "aware" of their essences. You can come to your senses again.